finally...e long awaited holidays are here...haha i mean "holidays"...haiyo...no rest for mi this hols ba ;p i guess all e sec4s also...so much de hw...can die la ;p but still mus do la ;p who call theres sumthing known as e "0" for us at e end of this yr ;p hehe *sianz* but jia u la every1...this ish a bi jing zhi lu lai de :D
hmmm anyway jus read a book on how to control ya angers today ;p..den haha wanna blog down to remind myself n if ya dun mind also take a look la :D hehe
anger = negative attitude
why ?
positive attitude will make u happy...
but are u happy when u are angry...
at least i am sure..i am not happy when i am angry...
hence why be angry ne ??
learn to control ya temper..haf patiences and be kind towards others...
coz anger usually coz u to hurt others verbally or physically..even those u love..(which ish i always do de ;p *i will try to change* )...
however controlling ya temper is not = to plastering a smile on ya face n yet still feel angry in ya heart...coz thats being hypocrite...
hehe being patiences take time...
being angry is a bad habit..
its usually not easy to kick away a habit...
thus give yourself more time...
be patient and kind towards yaself too...
and dun let ya anger out by screaming and hitting things too...
coz in that way..ya are hurting yaself and its a negative attitude too...
jus give yaself some time to learn to be patient...
time to be patient...
and whenever u feel like letting out ya anger...
remember the harm that u had brought to e one u love...the last time u was angered...
and rmb to stand in others shoes and take a look at yaself when u are angry...
wuld any1 wans to be friend with sum1 like ya when ya are angry...
wuld u even wan to be ya own frend ?...
so always rmb...to be patience...look at things from a diff angle...
give yourself time...
not being angry is NOT = to suppressing ya anger...its jus dissolving it by putting it in another way...
=========5mile always=======
i am giving myself time to be patient...sorry to all those i threw my anger at :D...and lets all jia you to be patient and kind to others too :D its always nice to hear a word of praise and encouragement rather than a word of anger ;p
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